Day 22 : My relationship with BLAME

 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create a relationship  of participation with blame as thoughts, emotion, and backchat.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame myself and others when I fail or fall into abuse of Life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react with emotions and thoughts of blame whenever I remember past failures.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to compare myself with others or with what my mind want me to be and fall into blaming myself, blaming my mind, blaming my parents, blaming the systems.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to always start blaming myself by thinking Ohh If you had done this instead of that we will not be in this situation or we will be better.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to look into my past actions with blame, like blame will change anything, or make anything better.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to see realize and understand that blame  is me trying to not take full responsibility of my actions and accept the consequences of what I did. So in blame I am resisting responsibility and consequences of my own past actions.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to see realize and understand that blame harass with constant criticism and attribute responsibility to others. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to attribute respobility fo what happen to me to others, or my mind, or the mind conscious system, or money system or sex system and so on.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to see realize and understand that blame as an accusation that you are responsible for some lapse or misdeed and that happen inside the mind as thoughts, emotion, and backchats is a mind trap to keep me slave to the past without any change.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to see realize and understand that blame a reproach for some lapse or misdeed is always just thoughts, emotions or backchats that not really in any way helping to solve the situation or bring change into my life

I commit myself to when and as I see thoughts, reactions, or backchats of blame to STOP breathe and take full responsibility of what I did and take massive actions towards solutions being here as Life as what is best for all life 

 


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